While visiting the part of that group that got me through what could only be described as the most unreal and bizarre times of my life we all got to meet some remarkable people.
A few of us visited The Wall to place a special coin at the names of some of our group that were shot down at the end of the Cambodian campaign.
L to R: Pig, Goose, Al, Vic.
The coin.
Goose was the only survivor. And that is another story. Over the years Goose has shared much of it but a novel could be written around that one day, that one crash and the lives that were affected. Most people have a story, some have many but the last two photos contain eight complicatedly entertwined stories. And then there are the stories on the wall behind us. The human cost of war.
Anyway, the four of us were locating the names on the Wall when someone asked if we would like him to take the picture you see above. He wound up taking the same photo with everyone's phone/camera, including his mum's iPad. We got to talking, exchanging emails and phone numbers (to send each other photos) and we learned that Mark, the volunteer photographer, was a FedX pilot.
We invited them ( Mark, his mum and two sons) to join us at the reunion "O club" (a no host bar set up for us in one of the hotel banquet rooms) for a pre dinner drink that afternoon. We parted ways and figured that we might possibly never see them again.
Well, they did show up and we had a great time hearing their stories. His "Mum" was a delightful English lady who was instrumental in starting Mark on his career in aviation while still in school. His boys were into video games of course and things that expelled projectiles, so the static display Hueys were a draw for them. They also got some souvenirs in our vendor room. I must apologize for not having photos with details but it appears that I may have been hampered by drink and must rely on the guys sending me that stuff after they get home and dry out.
This is what I have so far.
We finally decided to break and meet up with previously arraigned dinner companions. Mark gives Chooch a wad of bills and says he wants to buys our drinks tonight. We hug, promise to stay in touch and disburse to our rooms to clean up for dinner, good luck.
When we regroup Chooch tells us that we have $200 to spend on drinks and we knew we were in trouble (again, as usual). So our group of 13 head out to a small nearby diner, secure in the knowledge that it will be drunk out tonight; trusting in our large numbers to get us back safely. Perhaps not the soundest strategy, but it was all we had.
After dinner we found that we had a few dollars left over from the bar bill. Luckily, there was a liquor store nearby. Bill Lunde (Spanky) and I formed a plan. It was simple, he bought a bottle of Jack's Single Barrel and I helped him drink it. Somehow, the group got separated into two flights on the way back but we managed to regroup in Goose's room (much to his delight). Spanky and I worked on the Single Barrel while we all told stories, drank most of the rest of Mark's booze and generally made a lot of noise. Around midnight I realized that I had to get up in a few hours to catch the shuttle to Dulles. So, all too soon I said my goodbyes and tried to thank my base for always being there.
As I have leaned on my base more and more, I find it getting bigger and more stable. I've never been good at asking for help ( that hasn't stopped me from me from taking it, I'm just not good at it ) or properly thanking those giving it. Lately my gratitude debt has reached new highs and I hope to take the time to pay it down soon. Till then,
Thank You. You are all truly remarkable!